Phee Nugent

I'm **. Many years have passed since we lost connections after you got married to Japanese guy. Is't it Ok to be just an on-line firend?

I'm OK!

Hello good evening Br B**

Thank you very much for sending me several letters of encouragement.

I have still deeply suffered from the financial losses caused by that latest laid-off, so I need to work everyday sometimes from ten am to midnight.


I find lots of good people and friends as you in congregation.

I will resume attending the meeting in regular basis soon.


Sincerely yours,
Mer

Mana Okuda

Mana Okuda
Yeah, not Eiko Onoda but Mana Okuda..I met her about a year ago in a factory I was dispatched. She's 20 years old. High school graduate. Her ambition was obvious in her vivid eyes.Recently I heard she's going to publish a new CD. I asked her about it. I paid 10 dollars in advance. I will be getting it by the end of next week according to her.She's a keyboader. I am glad I encountered her in such an edge of town.

Chat with Don

don is Available
don:
good afternoon mer! how's it going?
Me:
Hi, I'm fine..how about you?
don:
im okay here, but many arent
Me:
You mean hit by tyhoon?
don:
yes, unfortunately
Me:
In your area, too?
don:
yes
Me:
I attend the meeting at least one time a week, usually on Thursday. I keep studying Bible with Br Burman.
don:
wow!
that's nice
how's it going then?
Me:
Br Tatesaka has gone. His brother also went to Tokyo. I found lots of good people there so I attend the meeting.
don:
i am so happy hearing that
i tried to email Hiro but i dont know if im able to contact him
id like to know how they're doing
Me:
I had also suffered from the economic reccesion. Laid off temporarily for about a month. But tiding has been changing. As to Br Hiro we have still kept in touch with emails, but that's all what we do
don:
really?
what's his email address?
maybe i had the wrong one
Me:
Ok, I let you know ...wait a second please.. I need to confirm
hiroandmomoko@yahoo.co.jp
don:
thank you for sharing it with me
will try to email them
ive heard about the economic slump in japan, and how things are shaping up recently
what's your work like now?
Me:
Welcome.. many Filipina asking help on line for their suffering. .. I'm now working in four different jobs so fine, right now.. even working too long hours..
don:
4 jobs?
whoa!
how do you keep a schedule with that?
Me:
It's ridiculous and not supposed to be the right thing. Many employers don't like to hire a person in full time. I think things will change
don:
that's the situation in many manufacturing companies here
before, people hire workers to stay permanently
now most are temporary
Me:
Keep a schedule carefully ..lol
don:
hahhaha!
i cant keep up with mine
Me:
Our government changed to centre-left, so things will change by degrees.
don:
yeah, with the recent toppling of the LDP
countries are changing policies with a change in administration
i wonder how the citizens feel about those changes
Me:
Election reflects people's will well in Japan, so thank democracy, but we'd better not rely on others, it's us who can change ourselves.
With a help of world spirit
don:
i agree with you completely!
that's why he purposed to change the way we are being governed
Me:
Well, I need to go out. Thanks for sending a chat message. I talk to Brothers about you. Talk to you again!
don:
yeah! thanks!
and take care

Message:
the picture taking during tulip festival in nogata shi...
anyway,,,whre are you here in japan???????????

Hi, Joyett..
I live in Hakata, the city of Fukuoka
How about you?
Eiko

A first word of Joyett

Joyett H says: Sep 23, 2009 6:37 pm


thanks for the comment.....!!

Is this photo taken in Iizuka?
You are awesome pretty

Won't you have a meal with me?

I sent you a message from my yahoo account.

Hi, this is Eiko Onoda frm Japan.
Let's have a chat

Thank you very much for your acceptance!!

What's up?
Hi! I haven't heard from you. Write to me!
Pretty. I like you.

Dance? At any time!

This is Eiko
I want to hear from you!

Paul

Hello good evening Br C**..

I just wanted you to remind that the first Timothy 5:8 was the very impressive verse.
When I read all the Bible, this verse was one of my favourite verses but could not find where. Thursday night I was able to fulfil my longing.

My understanding on Paul is that his first priority was ministry. His second one was for him to be a Roman citizen, third one was fund to sustain his journey, he was a tent maker back in Tarsus.

He definitely committed killing of one of Christians in his persecution. I assume his devotion to Christianity comes from his repentance to his crime.

I hope you enjoyed your journey to Kagoshima and a sand bath.

See you soon!

Eiko

Mer Cedo
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Now I understand you are working very hard. I became a victim of this economic recession, laid-ff . I'm working in four different companies.

I'm busy working but usually on line every night. Try catching me up any time.

Hear from you soon,

Mer
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18:03 I hope that life is treating you well!
My best,
Tim.

Horny morning

Good morning!
Let's have a chat here. You are very very sexy, so I feel like showing my everything.
We have almost no possibility to be able to see one another so let's do whatever posssible only on line. I am horny especially on you.

Ontological viewpoint

definitude03 wrote on Sep 13
I am not one to tribute to "God" so I will speak of it's possible intent. To assume that the exclusion of something could be a redress of its intent plays to semantics. The very notion of universality is transidential. To give it a name is personal and lends to egocentricity. Immortality of absolute truth is undeniable yet that is what is evident here. To assimilate such a notion to animal is far more absurd than assimilating immortality to a mineral and yet that to is absurd.Chaos is absolute. It is the forces of cohesion that elude us. This is no surprise, although the revelation is renewed in every re-development of a life, a contentious life that is. To discover such a notion is simple, yet to understand it is ethereal. This paradox is not worth considering in parallel between animal and mineral.The laws of physics could be absolute as Western culture predicts, it is the indoctrination of scientific prowess that is slighted in this instance. To support universality we simply apply Nietzsche's notions and excuse paradigm. This is an adult notion in an infantile existence. As far as the superiority complex goes, one only need to abandon the complex to realize we have no control over existence entirely. Therefor, the notion of superiority is transferred to the immortalist.The Ontological argument (truth + experience = existence) lends to the notion of acceptance regarding universality. The laws however have simply eluded us. Refer to http://theoreticalphysic.multiply.com/ to discuss the laws. This is scientifically speaking, I have not seen any belief system that has categorically attempted to alienate reason. So for this reason it is important to avoid mincing it as well.


Thanks for a comment from your ontological perspective

Knowledge is power

As time goes, now I realise there's no useless knowledge.I mean all knowledge is useful.Just our life is not long enough to confirm the validity of each knowledge.
I hope you write a wonderful essay!
Mer

Missonary & preaching

Thanks Br C**..
Abraham is the ancestor of both Jews -Isac and Arabs - Ishmael so it is quite a matter of course Jesus is the descendant of Abraham.

His heavenly life before his birth is a belief. No one can confirm that, so we believe so as Bible mentions.

Sr Ogata went to Nepal and I think she is a missionary. Historically Christianity was spread by many missionaries including Paul's and Iesus people as Ignatius Loyola in 16 centuries, etc.

Is there any difference between missionary and preaching ? I think they are the same, but merely different in expression.

Sincerely,

Mer

Long time no see

Hi, Br. C**..

Thank you for keeping in touch.

I need to struggle with severe reality for the time being since I started two new jobs at the same time.

But I can attend the meeting time permitting so tomorrow I am there.

See you soon,

Eiko

Thanks! Virginia.. I'll add you in my contact. Have a chat soonest possible!


Hi! This is Eiko Onoda.

Can I have a chat?

Tell me your email so that I can send my address.
Let's have a chat .

Sorry

Hello good evening Br **.

I had faced a big trouble with my employer. They broke our contract and I failed to work 50 hours for the next month, so I' m vigourously looking for other jobs to make up for the money I'm supposed to receive. Fortunately this affects only for the next month.

Thanks for two letters and I will attend the meeting soon after I settled my situation.

Take care, best regards to other brothers!

Eiko

The end of system of things

Hi Br Hiro.. thanks for a letter of encouragement.

I live in Fukuoka now. I attend the meeting regularly as I used to.

I haven't seen your brother and his wife.

I'm a contract worker and my employer attempts to ignore our contract. I feel very ashamed of their behaviour because it violates law. The problem haven't resolved so I'm uneasy right now.

I went to the meeting with my wife on last Sunday. This is the only good news for you to share.

It was new to me what the festival of booth is.

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Who is he?

Hello good evening Br C**,

For about five days I had to face a work condition trouble at my workplace. It was not at all totally a good experience but now it was already resolved so now I'm ok.

Japan is as if it were a small village that doesn't know what an international standard is. Or even it doesn't know what a standard is.

Anyway aside from that, back to our topics.

Why you call Him a father when you pray while you are not a son of God. Isn't Jesus an only son of Jehovah?

You say Jesus is impeccable, perfect, he is special, he exists before Adam was made and Jehovah made a world with his only son Jesus - Jesus was Michael one of mighty angels before his birth on earth.

Ok, suppose that is true, Isn't Jesus a descendant of Abraham, thus that of Adam as it described in Gospels? And as it promised by God that the Saviour must be from the lineage from Abraham?

As we studied 144000 must be resurrected not on the earth but in heaven. But those slave class were not in heaven before their birth as Jesus was.

As to today's topic -preaching work.

In today's world Christianity is prevailed every for corners of the world. It is just the most powerful religion in the world and history. Then why do you need to 'preach' while this teachings were already preached throughout the world? This is one of my biggest questions. Of course here is neither America nor Europe. I admit Japanese people as well as some other Asians are not familiar with good news though.

As for me how I encountered Bible is that I started reading Bible five years ago because I noticed how knowledge of Bible is common among Americans and Europeans while I started emailing with them.

Sincerely yours,

Eiko

Nice encounter!

Hello good evening Miss Alix,

It was really nice coincidental encounter for both of us. I am really grateful to you since you were very friendly ..thank you very much for your sharing about half an hour with me.

Fukuoka is undoubtedly one of the nicest cities not only in Japan but around the world. And second cleanest cities next to Sendai, northern part of Japan.

Tokyo and Osaka is much much bigger than Fukuoka and Kyoto has much more worthy to see many temples, so I hope you find lots more in these cities.

Next time when I had chances to visit Brussels I never fail to visit Manikin piss thou I don't do so in public presence.

Nice to meet you and see you again and

Keep in touch! I'd like to hear from you soon,

Sincerely yours,

Your friend,

Eiko Onoda

Christmas & birthday celebration

Hello good evening Br Carlos,

I quickly browse your letter which contains lots of information obviously I need to survey more.

I think you are right. Birthday celebration is pagan origin, but there's one more big description of birthday celebration in Bible you seemed to deliberately ignored. Why you need to ignore? Because is it an inconvenient fact?

The birth of Jesus, which was celebrated by three Magi from the East, probably Zoroaster priests. Although some say they brought three gifts and not sure how many people though, it is certain they were Magi.

I admit they were neither Jews nor Christians, but the birth of Jesus was celebrated by Magi. We don't care who they were at this point. This story was mentioned in Bible. It is not against the Bible to celebrate someone's birthday.

Three Magi were wise enough to tell a wrong direction to Herod. Therefore Jesus was able to get away from the hands of Herod.

How do you interpret this episode? This occupies a very important role in the beginning of Christianity itself.

I respect your way not to celebrate birthday. Many people celebrate birthday of close friends and family. It's a custom, but also it's up to our freedom or choice to or not to do it regardless of whether we are **or not. What I just want to insist is birthday celebration is not against Bible.

Christmas is the day to celebrate the birth of Jesus and the biggest festival in Christianity.
If Christmas were against the Bible, Bible couldn't have mentioned the three Magi episode.

By the way I intend to come to attend the Sunday discourse. Because you are so responsible to my questions. I need to reply in simply attending your shining stage. This is not from a feeling of obligation, but I am just willing to do it. I'm off on next Sunday. I'll do my best to attend it with my best partner of my life, I mean my wife. Please expect, she is very pretty.

I haven't read your reply on resurrection. I'll write to you as soon as I read it.

Do you say Magi celebrate the birth of Jesus, not the birthday of Jesus?

Sincerely yours,

Mer

hi Eiko....

how r u today.. sorry, i've been quite bz lately.. will cath up with u soon.... btw, thnx 4 the ring gift..

Private detective

Hi, Jeanett

I hired a private detective to know your birthday. The name of detetive is Tagged.
Anyway happy birthday! I live in Fukuoka.

Best regards,

Eiko
In reply to Ohayo Gozaimasu!!!!

Hi!!!Eiko,thanks for my birthday cake.How you know it?where are you staying here in Japan?

Hello good afternoon

Hello Miss Ai..

Thanks for beautiful tags. I appreciate your concerns.
It's not so easy to exchange our ideas here.

My yahoo address is
Let's have a chat there. I've got many matters that I didn't reveal in public.

Hear from you soon,

Sincerely yours,

Eiko

On divorce hearing

Hi, Miss Angel..

Thanks for beautiful Tags, it was so encouraging..

I am totally exhausted right now, since we had a divorce hearing at local domestic court yesterday.

The conclusion was divorce is almost impossible. It is impossible unless she agrees.

I think I need to give up and I'll try to find another way to find happiness.

Take care till next chatting!

Sincerely yours,

Eiko

Welcome back!

Hello good afternoon, Br C**,

London - dry and moderate, New York - dry and hot, Tokyo -humid and hot.

Where do we want to live?

Aside from joking, welcome back! I thought you might have decided to stay in London for a while.

Shall we take a rest for a short time to adjust this monsoon region? Here's at the midst of Asia.

Take care and see you on Thursday.

Mer

Happy birthday to me

Happy birthday to me
Friday, June 26, 2009 12:32 AM

Hi Br C**..

I have been wondering your whereabouts since I haven't heard from you for two weeks.
I just hope you are well and you are enjoying your stay in London fully, fully and fully.

So you are coming back on the 27th of June, that is the day after tomorrow.
I've got to work on Sunday evening. I turn 48 on the 28th of June, so we're going to have a small party at home Sunday afternoon. I'd like to invite you though if I recall correctly you don't celebrate anyone's birthday. I think it has nothing to do with religion, it's just a tradition. But it is totally up to you. Tell me why you don't celebrate anyone's birthday.. it's my question this time.

So I think I attend Thursday meeting on 2nd of July. Hopefully we see again on the day.

Your friend,

Mer

Ascension or resurrection?

Thanks Br H**..

Probably it might have been a matter of course there's two types of resurrections.
I myself have known it but couldn't distinguish between the two in the case of Jesus.

Is there any meaning there's two types of resurrections? Basically humans ought to be resurrected as humans again. It is unthinkable for humans to be resurrected as spiritual beings. Are they going to be angels as Michael, etc?

Jesus was an angel before his earthly birth so it is in some way logical for him to regain spiritual being. Is there any sign he is in heaven as a spiritual being right now? Why don't we use 'ascension' in Jesus' case.

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Beyond gaps

Religion is somehow based on some illogical belief so it might not be suitable for someone who always think in logic.

Despite that I hope our friendship lasts beyond basic gaps in understanding. I value Christian ethics and friendship with those who hold Christian ethics. In other words, I am opposed to worldly materialism.

I'm going to write to you again when I had some questions, till then see you!
Mer

On resurrection

Hi Br H**,

I understand resurrection in Bible almost always meant get life again on the earth as a physical being. Shadrack, Meshack and Abednego were so and some people in early Christian congregation were so.

However in the case of Jesus. He was resurrected in a physical being once, but he ascended to heaven soon after he appeared in front of his acquaintances.

I'm afraid this is not exactly a resurrection on the earth. This description suggests he lived after his death in heaven. This allows the interpretation there's a kingdom of heaven after our death.

How do you think of the meaning of his resurrection.

Best wishes,

Mer

Rules for liberation

Hello good afternoon Br D**,

I had thought your mail was lengthy..

Religion played a kind of role as regulation to excessive sexual relations. Because humans are greedy and horny. I am amazed to find Filipino or Filipina are very conservative with a view to sexual relations. I think it is because of the strong ethical influence of Catholicism.

On the other hands, look at Japanese lads! They have no religious restrictions, and they are free to love anyone. But I think it's much better to suppress their freedom. Free love is one of our fundamental human rights. Religion ought to play a tap for their free will, but not to be a lid against their natural healthy desire to seek for their opposite sex.

That's my belief. I myself had to spend a dark age throughout my twenties and it's 32 years old that I had a first date with a woman. I went to graduate school so..

Bible rules are not for suppression but for liberation of humanities.

Thanks for talk to me on the chat. I'm always available!

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Know their characters first

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hallo mer!
Me:
Hi!
don:
enjoying lunch?
Me:
Yeah, already.
don:
me too
i enjoyed ur last email
Me:
Thanks! I haven't checked your last mail, though.
Do you have a class today? I guess you are sending this in your lab.
don:
not yet, will have a class tomorrow
but i have something to do in the lab after the lunch break
what are you doing today?
Me:
I'm off today and killing time in browsing internet.
don:
nice to have some time off
as soon as classes start tomorrow then we here will be kept much busy attending to insistent and persistent students
Me:
Are you going out with a girl back in your country? Among Jehovah's Witnesses?
don:
i used to, but it's hard here
you know the filipino culture, women must be courted and won over
it's not often that couples talk about marriage
some would want to enjoy time as couples, or as "steady" as we call it
Me:
It certainly depends on each individuals and many young unmarried girls want a guy to marry them. Otherwise it is out of their concern. I'm married so I cannot offer them any promise on marriage, so nine out of ten girls exclude me from their list. I love my wife so no problem though.
But there are many seductions in my life. Some girls don't want me to marry but still hope to have relations. I must be careful. But it's a sweet temptation. I think marriage certainly limits our freedom to love someone, but between unmarried people, love or pre marital relation is just a result of their free will.
don:
i understand
but im not for premarital intercourse
Me:
You say ' fornication ' is bad. If fornication means weird sexual practices I agree with them. If fornication means pre marital relations I think it's just a natural today. When Jesus said in Mattew 'except for fornication' fornication there does not mean pre marital relations for sure.
don is Available
don:
our internet connection in the lab is a little off, so i may get signed off unexpectedly
Me:
How to interpret the word in Bible varies in each individuals, but I find it
very practical when it says marriage is subject to end in some conditions
don:
nice thought
Me:
In other words, marriage is not absolute if we failed to keep its nice relations.
don:
right
mer, gtg (got to go), need to do something in the lab
thanks for the chat
Me:
Thanks. It's good not to have intercourse between you so you have no problem because your counterparts also know the circumstances. Also it's good to know their characters before marriage first.
Ok, see you again in the net! Have a good day!

Happy marriage

Hello good afternoon Br C**,

Sorry for coughing in front of you.. It was offensive!

What fornication is varies from ancient times to modern days. On the other hands, adultery usually refers to affairs with married people or a person outside of their marriage, so it becomes a cause of divorce from also a secular point of view.

If fornication means strange or weird sexual behaviour, it could become the cause of divorce from secular points of view, too. What strange or weird sexual behaviour varies in each individuals, it's just hard to define.

Anyway it was amazing for me to find how you stand on a liberal idea about divorce. Divorce is one of options for married couples.

In short, divorce is possible if two parties agree of course, and it is possible even if one party disagree with it but had it some cause as fornication in one part or the other.

I don't think porneia means premarital relations, though fornication might mean. Couples will marry after going out with one another and knowing well, so marriage is a result not a start of their partnership.

I married a lovable woman and it is just out of the question to think about the possibility of having extra-marital relations, my question about divorce in your organisation is sheer out of curiosity.

Sincerely yours,

Eiko

Happy marriage

Hello good evening Br D**,

Thank you for you let me know the account in first Samuel. I can't recall it correctly, though, I try to find the description there. Simply put, I rest assured the injunction of blood was less punishable than the violation of Sabbath.

Personally I like your standpoint on fornication. Sex ought to be held only between married couples. This is not only acceptable in Christian point of view but also in secular point of view. Reality is often very different from what it ought to be.

I must admit humans are erroneous on this matter, but humans ought to strive for realising its ideal. If married couples love one another profoundly, they cannot have extramarital relations. Let me say one excuse. I am completely faithful to my wife. I never had any extra-marital relations with other women. In the first place we didn't have to since we love one another deeply. I just observe what worldly people do and simply cast a question.

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Confession

But before I married her three years ago I had had relations with a woman. I confess I had suffered from her incessant betrayals and that caused the separation definitely.

On divorce

Hello good evening Br C**,

Sorry for not attending the meeting and not sending questions. I have just started working in a new office and I've got many matters to learn first and that's the reason of absense, not giddiness at all ;-)

No one knows whether God exists. It is very hard to verify whether God exists or not, so we need to believe in God in order to have faith. I believe in God, but my notion of God is probably different from what you grasp as God, but it's OK, we both believe in God.

In a same manner no one knows whether resurrection will take place in the future. I think resurrection is possible in future. It is not a matter of half a century or century, but tens of millions of light years ahead in such a sense as science makes almost everything possible. I think it's possible for the deceased to have new life again, but I'm afraid it's unnecessary. We have a limited life span but in such a sense as wishing our lineage last forvever.

It is just hard to verify the existence or non-existence of God and the event of resurrection and therefore you believe in God and his miraculous act.

Back in our ordinary life my question tonight is how you think about divorce. Do you admit it under some circumstances?

I hope to see you on Thursday!

Sincerely yours,

E.Onoda

Hello good evening Miss Myla,
How do you do!
Thanks for finding me and sending me a request. I appreciate that, and I hope our friendship will lasts forever.
Sincerely yours,
Eiko Onoda

No problem!

Hello good evening Miss Irma,

I think my operating system is not XP, Vista, but Me which is millennium edition, I think that relates to your failure to send me your files.

You can send me your photos here. I'm looking forward to receiving your files.

Attached is a photo of me and Professor Don from Los Banos.

Sincerely yours,

Eiko

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Good evening Miss Irma, how are you?
Irma:
I'm fine thank you
Me:
I'm now so so OK. I couldn't walk straight for a month though. I still need a extra care for my health condition especially in my balance sense.
Irma:
Oh i see
Me:
I knew also I'm susceptible to medicine. Side effect was severe. How's your life planning going on? How's your private life? I'm likely to have a very big turning point of my life soon.
Irma:
I'm now busy with my new endeavor
the music environment
I will play tomorrow night i'll not be online
Me:
Then you ask what is that? Then I will reply next... new what? Yeah are you talented in keyboard? I didn't know that.
Irma:
no,i'm still learning
what is important here is my laptop
laptop computer
would you like to see my singers?
they were still young
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Me:
You used to send me your cv through the files. I certainly received it. Does it depend on the kind of files? I'm not sure though.
Irma:
anyway you will see it on my photos here on messenger
can you see us?
my display photo
Me:
Ok, I'll check it. Are you asking I can see you in messenger? If so, let me check.
Irma:
on my display image
Me:
Give me five minutes, then I will reply here.
Irma:
as i can see your display image is avatar
by the way its too late in here and there too
i have to sleep now
Me:
Ok, good night. I hope you send me your file with email. It's easy ..see you again!
Irma:
ok goodnight

Yeah I was unwell this one month after I came back from other city. I was working in the city for one year and three month.
I'm now so so OK. What was my sickness? Vertigo or giddiness. I couldn't walk straight for a month. Lying all day long. Despite that I worked for no less than twenty hours a week. Albeit I will work 35 hours a week as of tomorrow.

Hi, how are you? I hope you are my online friend. I really like a woman who is one year senior to me. My wife is also so. Hope you are fine too!

Calm morning

Hello good morning my friends!
Very calm morning indeed. No wind absolutely. No sound with the exception of murmuring of birds probably a dove and cry of dogs far far away.
Then I hear the whispering of small birds high above the sky.Sun starts shinning and wind starts blowing.
New day starts also today too.
Eiko

Nice to meet you
Nice!
Welcome..I appreciate your sending emails. Please keep on..

Hi good morning Ms Mari, Nice to meet you! Eiko


Very calm morning indeed. No wind absolutely. No sound with the exception of murmuring of birds probably a dove and cry of dogs far far away.

Then I hear the whispering of small birds high above the sky.

I have an Indian friend who lives in Emirates. Nice guy. Hope you are my friend on line.
Don't know you anything though..I'm impressed.

See you tomorrow

Thursday, May 28, 2009 2:25 AM

Hello good evening Br C**,

Thank you for many quotations from publications of the society.

You say Jesus will hand over power in Kingdom of God after 1000 years.
You say Jesus is a son of God. I think a son will succeed the Kingdom and don't return its tenure to his Father.

That is my simple impression after reading your explanation.

See you in tomorrow meeting.

I will send you another question before soon.

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Fornication

Fornication
Thursday, May 28, 2009 1:54 AM

Hello good evening Br D**..

In this letter 'you' refers to 'institution' not specifically Br D** yourself..

I appreciate your explanation to injunction of blood in New Testament.
I think it's enough not to use animal blood in offering for the purpose of idol worship and of course not to drink blood just in order to keep abstinence of blood, but it's up to you. You ought to act as you think. No one can dissuade you from your decision. We all respect your decision.

In law there's an exception in applying it which is justifiable defence and emergent evacuation. Injunction of blood also ought to exclude the case which relates to a matter of life and death. Where's tolerance in your faith?

As to fornication. It is very natural for unmarried couples to have sexual relationship before their marriage. Many people have sex freely as long as they are under consent. Marriage usually regulates only their economic relationship, not their sexual relationship.

You often says fornication is bad, extramarital relationship is bad. But many people do so. I don't disagree as to the idea of sex ought to be done between married couples. But this decision is worthy if it is based on their free will.

I think fornication Bible warns not to do is not sex between unmarried couples, but rather excessive lust ordinary people usually don't have.

This is my impression I had in my Bible reading. How do you think about this? Bible is not a book of prohibition as you often emphasise. Let's take it easier, shall we!

Please respond to me when you can. I wait.

Sincerely yours,

Mer

Hi! you pretty woman!
Hi, how are you?
Hi, dear!
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Thank you very much and nice to meet you. Please feel free to ask something that you can't. I am willing to help you !!
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Hello good evening Br D**..

I just finished reading your reply.
I will write to you the other day.
Good night, it's 2:15..

Mer

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How's your life in O**?
Mer

Essence of God

Hello good evening Br H**..

Yes, this is based on my personal experience. About 33 years ago in Kora a very old guy who is Jehovah's Witnesses refused to take blood transfusion in operation. He's dead as a result of this action. At that time his case was reported in a newspaper.

He was over 80. He must have had a death from natural cause sooner or later, but anyway he refused to live longer by possible medical procedure.

I know two other cases as I told you before.. A married couple was attending some church regularly. After about a year of attendance they took their baby in a church. Their baby was apparently suffered from jaundice and probably the day was the last day on earth. He was swelled more than two times from ordinary state with full of yellow skin. They never visit the church again after this.

A guy was attending the church, after 9 months of his attending he was unable to come any more. Later I heard he was killed by cancer.

Probably in both two cases they must have been looking for rescue in soul. Here lies the essence of religion I suppose.

I think resurrection will take place. For God's eyes it comes soon. But for human eyes it will take millions of years. Science can do anything, that is I believe the essence of God.

By the way.. what do you do in the United States?

Sincerely yours.

Mer

Kingdom of God

Hello good morning Br **..

I finished reading your lengthy reply very late last night at around 3 am. Thank you very much for your enthusiasm to defence for your faith. This is not a sarcastic. Bible what is today was written many years ago and it's been 1900 years since the last chapter was completed. Bible has been interpreted in many ways as well, depending on how to interpret the verses. That's fine if you have some conviction based on faith in your direction of life. That not what others say it's wrong or right.

Yes there is an injunction of fat, pork and blood in Old Testament and blood only in New one. You interpret the prohibition of blood is still in effect over all Christians not only as offering, drinking but also for medical purposes. You can use fractions of red and white blood cells, platelets, plasma and other blood derived medicines such as immuno-globulin, etc. according to conscience of each Christians but you mustn't donate blood or receive blood transfusion.

This is a faith matter. Faith relates to how to live and sometimes heavier than life itself.
I understand and I should like to respect your faith.

In many Christendoms Sunday is called Lord's Day which means the day of Jesus or God.
Sun was an object of worship in many ancient Orient civilisations such as Egypt or Babylonia. Jewish Sabbath is taken from sundown on Friday to Saturday night till three stars are visible. So I confirmed it one day and 40 minutes. (So it was not 1.5 days as I thought before in my previous reading.)

Jewish people experienced Egypt and Seleucid occupation from 323 - 198, 198 - 166 BE respectively. It can easily be guessed that the custom of which day the day of rest is shifted from Saturday to Sunday influenced by the traditions of such occupant countries who believe the God of Sun. I think the resurrection of Jesus and baptism as a ritual also come from Sun worship since the sun is the one that repeat birth and death every day.

But officially yeah it was Constantine who implemented Sunday is the holy day adopting sun worship so common among other orient countries. Cross was also adopted from the sign of Sun god in Babylonia at the same time. And this was the reason you exclude Lord's Day and Cross in your Christian belief.

In several ways you excluded some customs major Christendoms implemented after the death of Jesus. Your belief is similar to original Christianity. In a sense it is a restoration movement to original Christianity in the first century. I myself feel Christianity today has been made through many traditions Catholics, Orthodox, and Protestant put into effects.

You seem to be different from Christianity since you don't use cross, don't celebrate Christmas, don't have church, but that's the very reason of what you are.

No questions? Yes, I have. In Kingdom of God, is the King Jesus, not God? Is there difference between Kingdom of God and that of Heaven? Then where is Heaven located ? Since we see two expressions in Gospels.


Sincerely yours,

Mer

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Aritificial blood

Hello good afternoon Br **..

Yeah I was supposed to wait your sending a reply for my first email. So sorry too.

>this decision was made by a group of older men

That's right, but that does not necessarily mean in 21c all Christians ought to follow.
Refrain from blood was commanded because still in early century blood was sometimes on the table. ( I read this description from 'Apologeticus' written by Tertullian (ca.155–230) or even if it were not on the table animal blood was used in idol worship. From such various point of view I guess blood needed to be kept away from Christian's mouth.

When we think about the meaning of command we must consider its background, context,etc. For example because Mose's law was repealed by the death of Jesus today's Christians no more try to follow Mosaic law. I guess old congregation leaders as St James couldn't realise the real meaning of the death of Jesus and said so just to ease the tension between Gentile and Jewish congregations. For example Jews don't baptise while Jesus did so though, let alone they must have thought they are different from Gentiles in treatment of blood.

Blood prohibition was appears three times in Bible. One is in Genesis and this command was given to Noah, and second was in Leviticus given to Israelites. the third one was in Acts. So many agree Old Covenant was replaced by New Covenant. Some say command given to Noah was not nullified by New Covenant so command given to Noah is still in effect.

Is that so? I'm afraid not. Jesus is greater than Moses, let alone than Adam, Noah. Since Jesus existed before the first man, I think we ought to put maximum significance on the Advent of Jesus in if we were Christians and that's the meaning of I though the Redemption.


I'm glad you take fractions of red, white blood cell, platelets, plasma, but are you originally doing so? or sometime after you decided not to accept blood transfusion you decided to accept such products derived from blood? Not sure.

Suppose you were banned to take milk instead. Do you insist powdered milk, condensed milk, milk candy, soft cream are OK since they are not milk but a product derived from milk? So if someone take red, while blood cell, platelets, plasma at the same time is it OK?


But aside from all what I wrote here, whether you take blood or not belongs to conscience of each individual Christians. In Acts we read Refrain from blood, whether it includes merely evading to use animal blood for sacrifice or too far to include blood related medicines as immunoglobulin, or blood transfusion in operation. It's up to us not up to other's decision. I merely believe if some Christians accepted blood transfusion you cannot blame they are a violator. I think so.


So my question this time is do you use artificial blood in need if it were invented some day in future?

Yes, I am now in ** and attending the meeting regularly as of 11th of April. I wish you were here, but let's resume Bible study on line! I appreciate your advice.

At second world war you refused to go to war and put into camps in Germany. It was very meaningful because war in general is against humanity, conscience of Christians. But how about the refusal of blood transfusion! That benefits who?

I say to myself.. This feeling is from my personal experience. He's dead in hope of resurrection. Probably resurrection will take place in millions of years in future time. But till then who cares?

See you in next email.

With Christian sincerity
Mer

posted by Eiko Onoda at 2:12 AM 0 Comments

Tuesday, May 19, 2009
So sorry

Hello good evening Br **..

Oh, you were still composing your thoughts about my first mail. Sorry, I was impatient and made you hurry.

As you say if Mosaic law was repealed in Christ death, that's what I pointed out about the meaning of Redemption.. but it seems this idea is not original..

Blood prohibition was mentioned three times that is in Genesis to Noah, Leviticus to Israelites, and the third one is to Gentiles in Acts.

Command given to Noah is not Mosaic law, that's why this law is not nullified by the Death of Jesus? Moses recorded a command given to Noah since he is the one who wrote the first book Genesis. Is there any difference between command given to Noah and Mosaic law? I don't think there is.

As to the description in Acts about it I read Catholic had already solved this matter in 1442 Session 11 of the Council of Florence.


So my main question is isn't blood prohibition nullified through the death of Jesus?

If not, what was the meaning of Redemption?

Please take your time as long as two weeks. I will send another email after that.


Best wishes,
Mer

Thanks for your greetings. Keep in touch.. but I'm married, OK?

Blood & Fat

Hello good evening Br **..

As I stated in my previous reply it's up to you whether to consider transfusion is a violation.

Other denominations don't have such troubles, in Catholic Council of Florence 1442, Session 11, already issued a decree which says his word was uttered to ease tensions between congregations of Jews and Gentiles and ought to be taken its validity temporarily.

In Nicene Council 325 Arianism was thought pagan. Yet you take a standpoint of nontrinitarian view.

You use the term stake instead of cross.

This is correct, since stauros means in Greek a upright pole, not a cross. It was Constantine who connects Babylonian tradition and Christianity.

It's OK, but are you the one who don't celebrate Sunday as Lord's Day? Even if not so still you take holiday in this day. Isn't it a heretic tradition?

I think many cultures are interwoven together, so it's hard and meaningless to define which is Christian and which is not.

Leviticus 7: 22 -26 says fat is also prohibited. I have never heard fat is banned in the meeting though. Do you regard this prohibition is not valid any more because it's a Mosaic law - the same theory as swine?

I'm not sure whether blood was on the table in ancient times, but if it's so this prohibition counts a lot. And it counts a lot today since blood transfusions are common.. so it's up to you. But I think it's more practical to obey the order of abstaining from fat in our times since it causes various diseases.

I think I am much better now..

See you soon,

Mer

Meaning of Redemption

Hello good morning Br **..

I was thinking overnight as to why Jehovah's Witnesses can eat pork but cannot get one of medical procedures -blood transfusion.

I thought about the meaning of Jesus's last word -wine represents his blood, and the meaning of Redemption, prohibition under Mosaic law and their likely release under New Covenant.

Religious freedom is more important than life itself. If Jehovah's Witnesses say no to transfusions we all have to pay deepest respect to their decision no matter what the basis of their decision might be. It is their solemn, own freedom. Freedom of faith, which is a right guaranteed by Constitutions.

So I leave it to them. And here's my thought.

No meat has been banned under New Testament. Likewise in my opinion, blood is now OK for humans to make the most of from every aspects as much as we can.

Let' s think about the symbolic meaning of Redemption. This idea is very unique in Christianity. Blood of humans from Adam had been made unclean by original sin, yet Jesus redeemed its sin in his death on the torture stake. So humans are now eligible to get access to eternal life if they really repent.

Blood was originally used in pagan traditions in ancient times and of course in modern times contaminated blood causes many fatal diseases such as AIDS, hepatitis.

However once it is used and applied in completely sterile states, transfusion has been saving tens of precious lives and many other blood related products such as plasma, globulin have been a key to cure for many diseases. Then all of a sudden we understand why Jesus compared wine to his blood.

Then we also agree with the claim that blood stands for life made by Jehovah's Witnesses.

Doctor prescribed immunoglobulin when I was likely to suffer from tetanus three years ago, which is made of blood.

I know my idea is over-interpretation of the meaning of Redemption, but I believe scientific truth and religious belief go with in the long run.


My wishes,

Mer

Mercelius 14th May 09 00:45
Hi, how are you? I'm getting better.

Blood

Hello good afternoon Br **..

I think I send one query per week since it takes at least one hour for you to reply. You have lots of responsibility over English congregation now, so please spare me one or two hour for me per week.

I hadn't noticed I was asking particularly about the matters in Torah, because Old Testament has much more volumes than Greek Scriptures I might seem to have asked more about Torah, but I hadn't noticed about it till I was remarked from you. ..OK.. I try to ask more about New Testament from now.

But first sorry my next query relates to both New and Old Testaments. It is about blood transfusion.

Jehovah's Witnesses is well-known for their refusal to participation in World War II first and later they came to be known by refusal to one of modern medical treatments - blood transfusion.

As I confessed many times I have carefully read all Scriptures both New and Old already and I found two parts Jehovah's Witnesses has been relied on for their refusal to blood transfusion. I don' t mention them now because you must know them as well.

One is from Old Testament, which reads we can eat any meat but we need to get rid of blood and in New Testament it reads we get away from blood. No one scriptures say we mustn't inject others blood into our body.

Blood transfusion is a modern medical treatment started from 18th century- if I recall it correctly, so it's out of question we can't find such verses written before the first century.

As I pointed out in my last query that swine was banned from eating because it was contaminated from various germs, so the command was so proper for us to keep.

I don't think no modern humans from early civilisation had had blood for daily dietary. It must have related to very different heretic traditions though it was very sane for us not to have blood in our ordinary life. But how about transfusion? It is a medical procedure necessary for our urgent occasion. Sometimes this act is held out of pure philanthropic viewpoint, let alone it's nothing to do with heretic traditions.

Refusal to blood transfusion often bring about end of life immediately. I know one of my acquaintances who's dead after he refused it.

In this particular issue we can read in Revelation 16:6 that 'drink blood' and of course Jesus compared the red wine to his blood in Eucharist. How do you interpret them?


Best wishes,

Eiko

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See you again
Monday, May 11, 2009 12:47 AM

Hello good evening Br **..

Of course it was very nice to see you here in **.
Just a ten days visit, but as I confessed you you have been always in my mind. I just wondered as if you were in my bureau last night when I met you for the first time in two years.

Anyway you are always in the left side of the screen. I don't miss you, because you are here.

Here's my homepage
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Many years ago before I come of age at age around 15, I decided to be a writer.

My writings are a gift to future people, and not meant for current people though I appreciate my fans keeping on reading my blog.

See you again I hope in **.

Mer

Thanks Aoi..

For your acceptance. Nine out of ten girls refuses. I got some acceptance from time to time, but I like this time yours the most.
You live in Okinawa. It's hard to see one another though.
I think we can start talking a little bit about ourselves.

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4:31 AM

No food law any more

Hello, good evening Br **..

This time I agree with you. Christians can eat whatever they want.

As to the verses in Acts, I read them again. Peter was so hungry that he came into trance. In his vision he saw God and God said he doesn't have to follow Mosaic law when he is too hungry to keep his life. He must have eaten them. It was not a bad decision as a human, of course, and as Christians too.

Mosaic law was written in 1300 BC. Many people today believe Pentateuch was arranged during Babylonian captivity, but it is easily assumed that the original code existed in Moses' time. 1300 years, it's long time. It is not strange even if the order had become obsolete at a time of missionary by Paul.

I've got many other questions, but it's time to take a rest as Moses commanded.
I will send another email sometime after we take a break.


Best wishes,

Mer

Origin of Holiday

Hello good evening Br **

Probably my remark might be thought too trivial. He was executed whatever the way it might be.

Moses was a wise man. He tried to establish social systems valid still in today's world.
Jewish people had been suffered from hard work and no rest. They had to keep on working till they died.

Moses had thought how they can get a rest without changing the frame of society. Hard work is, of course necessary for humans to survive. Taking a rest is, also very important to keep on working efficiently and everlastingly. So it was important to determine how often they can take a rest without losing two important factors, working hard and taking a rest.

Moses tried to stabilise the rate 5.5 workday and 1.5 taking a rest by introducing Sabbath. The custom of Sabbath was very new to them and some tried to work even when others are taking a rest.

Moses thought it is a sever violation or threat to the effective continuation of productive activity in society. Therefore it took one night to make up his mind whether to execute and how to execute him -the Sabbath breaker.

Moses used in his execution not hanging, stubbing only by one executor but stoning by all members of society, emphasising he committed a crime not against one person but against the benefit of all - I think this is the meaning of his being stoned to death.


I recall somewhere in Hebrew Scriptures that we mustn't eat pork. In today's world no Christians keep this rule. What I understand is the pork at that time is not the same one now we have. In ancient times swine eat various foods so they tend to be contaminated by poisonous matters, therefore prohibited.

Is my understanding correct? Or is there any new decree that we can eat pork?


Thank you for taking your time.

Mer

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No, sorry..I admire those who can play. I was raised up surrounded in books, books, books. I hope I had time to spare time for playing the piano.
Irma:
Oh i see ..i hope you will have
you should give time sometimes
Are you happy on what you are doing?
Me:
Yes, I am.
Irma:
Oh thats' good it is your choice
Me:
Are you good at accounting?
Irma:
why?
Me:
Because your job is related to it, also you majored in college.
Irma:
Yes i graduated in Bachelor of Science in Business Administration major in Accounting
Me:
Very nice.. you should be proud of it.
Irma:
yes,thank you
Are there a lot of Japanese who are selling for marriage?
Me:
I'm college graduate but mostly self-educated. I read tens of thousands of books, that made how I am now. As to selling marriage, I have heard of it.
Irma:
Because my friend told me if i would like to work and live in Japan i'd rather pay a japanese to marry me
but we will not live as couples
we will live separately
Me:
Yeah, if its marriage is valid, legal, superficially it's hard to tell whether it's based on real unity or false one. What I have heard is it cost 5000 US dollars, namely Japanese men get the money.
Irma:
in case do i have to pay that in cash or installment?
Me:
Not sure.. I just heard the sum of money Japanese receive. Probably instalment is possible. You can pay as you earn.
Irma:
oh ok thanks
Me:
You must find a broker there in the Philippines. But remember no ordinary Japanese involve such cases. You need to be careful.
Irma:
In case i would marry a Japanese can i be a Japanese citizen after 4 yrsZ?
yrs*
and be divorce?
Me:
If you got married to Japanese, you can get it for sure. You can get citizenship in marriage. Divorce cannot get rid of your citizenship in general.
Irma:
oh ok thats good
but in my case i am not allowed to marry if he is not belong in our church
it is difficult
i will be remove from the list in case i disobey
Me:
It is religiously speaking. Remember the case with your sister's husband. If really I am eager to marry someone, I would like to join her church. Religion is a matter of our mind.
Irma:
its because they married before joining
but if his husband had joined before marriage my sister will not be removed
Me:
I think it's a matter of course. We both need to join before our marriage. In general.
Irma:
yes
Me:
Do you want to marry Japanese guy who has the same faith?
Irma:
yes ofcourse
by the way, its getting late now eiko..nice talking with you
have a goodnight sleep
Me:
Oh..it's almost 11. Good night, Irma..
Irma:
goodnight

Irma:
hello eiko
Me:
Hi!
Irma:
how are you?
Me:
Fine.
Irma:
thats good..
just check my mails and saw you online
anyway, i have to take my dinner now
bye
Me:
Oh, it's so fast to leave.. ok..take your time.

One Sabbath breaker

Hello good evening Br **,

>Matthew completed his account about 41CE, only 8 years after Jesus death,while Marks was completed about 25 years later and Lukes 28 years later. It was only Johns that wasnt completed until 98CE.

This is a very useful information.

>Admittedly, this account seems quite unbelievable to say the least.

Nebuchadnezzar issued a decree which is all people should worship his statue. But idolworship is prohibited in Jews. Three young men didn't obey his order, then they were thrown into furnace. They never changed their faith in the face of their life and death. Their firm faith impressed the King a lot, so after this incident he never force Jewish people again to worship his statue.

Bible mentioned three were all saved by angels and they went to other places for their jobs later in their lives, which means in my view younger Jewish people other than three could enjoy their lives without breaking Jewish law or worshiping idols any more.

There were many wise prophets but Daniel was wiser than others. He not only invented a King's dream but also interpreted it favourably to King so that he couldn't deny. Regrettably three young men were wise but martyred on account of their faith. They are entitled to be called one of the earliest Jehovah's Witnesses.

Bible describes one Sabbath breaker was stoned to death. He was executed not by hanging, stubbing, but by stones. Why?

Mer

Shadrach, Meshack, and Abednego

Hello good evening Br **.

17 years ago it was hard for me to adjust to new life in Ireland. I hope you are well in new environment. Although I started a new life here..anyway,

>In the Hebrew scriptures(or the Tevrat)we are told that when an important matter must be established,there should be more than one witness. Deuteronomy 19:15 says "...At the mouth of two witnesses or at the mouth of three witnesses the matter should stand good"
I'm not sure it was here though, I recall Bible says one mustn't be guilty from only one witness. I have never noticed this can apply to Gospels.
>You might say though:"Suppose these 4 witnesses contradict eachother?"

I read carefully four gospels at age 15 and I found no contradictions among these.
Today I found minor 'contradictions' as in who carried the torture stake, or the date Jesus was executed, etc.

Remember difference is natural if a different author describes someone's life independently, so it's natural there's a difference between first three synoptic gospels and the fourth one.
I don't believe we normally say them contradictions.

Rather what I found strange was that the first three gospels are very similar, almost the same and I recall I just wondered why similar books had to be written and still this question remains to be my enigma.

I learned from what I read that Mark was written first then Matthew and Luke were written based on Mark with reference to another lost document. John was written from completely different point of view.

All books started being written after at least 30 years passed from the death of Jesus.

I suppose three synoptic gospels were written and used independently in different congregations among early Christians. Three similar gospels were taken as canonical Bible intending for followers to believe God gave similar accounts of Jesus in three different evangelists, which itself is a work done by God.

Probably early editors of Bible knew what Deuteronomy 19:15 says and applied in most effective way.

My next question is were really Shadrach, Meshack, and Abednego saved from furnace?

Thank you very much for taking your time.

Best wishes,

Mer

Four Gospels

Hello, good evening Br **..

I was unable to attend the meeting regularly for about a year. Today I felt very happy, I met many friends there. In Kingdom Hall, almost all people are Jehovah's Witnesses, while I am not. Yet I am where I'm supposed to be. I feel very happy. I started attending English congregation three years ago.

>Furthermore, 1 corinthians 3:19 says "The wisdom of this world is foolishness with God"...

In today's world we find more and more secular people, but still we have many people who have faith but without accurate knowledge. Jehovah's Witnesses are one of rare exceptions who have faith and accurate knowledge. That's why I like to attend the meeting.

Our wisdom is ignorable in comparison with Almighty God Jehovah, that's why we like to get closer to him through everyday Bible study.


>Infact it is only from the time of Israel having been chosen as Gods people in the book of EXODUS to the book of MALACHI that its written mainly for the Jewish nation. From MATTHEW to REVELATION in our Bibles..this is for any people regardless of race ..it is for those to examine the truth and choose whether they too want to become followers of Jesus.
Greek Scriptures consist of mainly four parts, that is Gospels, Acts, Letters, Revelations.

Gospels describe the life of Jesus four times. Acts describes Paul's journeys, almost all letters were thought to be written by Paul, and Revelations are full of metaphoric scenes.

All are written in fifty or sixty years time. In comparison with the very lengthy time Hebrew Scriptures were written, both the portion and period are significantly small and short.

Hebrew Scriptures were written in State sponsorship, while Greek Scriptures were actually a work done by each individuals. What I mean is Christianity was probably a new religion started by Johns the Baptizer. At that time it had been quite a long since Jewish people lost their independence. They had needed a new religion.

I don't disagree with you as to this point - Greek Scriptures were not only for Jewish people, but Gentile, too. But I mean all writers must be Jewish.


>Their health was perfect ,their food was perfect, they were both perfect in everyway. yet they sinned or missed the mark.


Here lies an eternal riddle -why perfect humans made a mistake.

The answer is Jehovah gave humans both freedom to do good as well as freedom to do evil.
Some say humans were made with free will. Therefore humans are perfect.

We can choose good or bad freely. Only mistake we made was we chose to do evil. But it's not a sign of imperfection. If we can only do evil or do good, we must be imperfect.

What I mean here is we'd better affirm human nature more positively. I feel very pessimistic when they say humans are imperfect.
Thank, Br Carlos..my query this time is why the life of Jesus was written four times by different authors.

See you soon,

With Christian Agape,

Mer

Common sense

Other queries
Saturday, April 25, 2009 4:58 PM

Hello, good afternoon, Br **..

I read whole Bible five years ago as a secular person. Still I am secular, but I evaluate Christian values a lot. In my impression Bible is basically a book of historic record of Jewish people and their activities, so faith is very different from what this record says. Faith is a matter of our mind, not knowledge.

Christianity in general starts from one premise which is humans are imperfect. This thought derives from what Adam did, so-called an original sin. But every time I hear humans are imperfect, I feel very dubious if they are.

I think humans are perfect. Yes, they often make a mistake. But making a mistake is not a sign of imperfection, rather a hope to further development in future.

Everlasting life doesn't mean individual's immortality at all. Rather it means humans' prosperity will last forever. In today's world our life expectancy is expanding thanks to a development in medicine and organ transplant, etc. , but immortal is nothing but a fear. We live limited lives, therefore we strive.

So here's my questions. Are really humans imperfect? and what is the real meaning of everlasting life?

Best wishes,

Mer

In reply to --- On Sat, 4/25/09, Carlos wrote

Dear Mer,

Yes sometimes I find things in the Bible that I never knew were there.

But I guess part of education and learning is finding new points to add to our already existing knowledge.

In fact, a scripture you might know very well is recorded at John 17:3...these words are Jesus' words, and he said :"
This means everlasting life, there taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one you sent forth, Jesus Christ".

So Bible knowledge through study and APPLICATION of what we learn equates to everlasting life for us individually in the future.

Thus I implore you to carry on your studies of the Bible with a view of applying what you learn.

Please ask me any other question at anytime that you may have in your mind.

Carlos

Hello, Br **..
Thank you very much.

There are many prophecies in Bible. I hadn't noticed Isaiah predicted the downfall of Babylon by God's annointed one.

See you soon,

Mer

Aim of prophesies

Hello good afternoon, Br **..

I was in Kokura for one year and three months. I started attending the meeting for the first time in more than one year last night. My former partner left Japan for America, so he is unable to resume our Bible study as we promised before.

I read almost all publications the society issued in the past and I don't want to use such publications in our Bible study. In the past we didn't use any books, everytime I raised a question as I asked last night and he answered the question from quoting verses in Bible, so no particular day and time is needed, just twenty minutes after the meeting, that'll be fine.

And now we are in Bible study already. We can use on line in effective way for it. Please send me attachments, etc. you want me to read. I will read and examine them.

My question last night was..History tells Cyrus conquered Babylon and released Jewish people from Babylonian captivity. He allowed them to rebuild Palace in Jerusalem. In yesterday's meeting they said this was predicted in Bible.

Ummm, many prophecies were written in lots of metaphoric words, but is there any description as ' A king in Persia will conquer Babylon and release Jewish people there.'

At that time prophets were in Babylon. Did Daniel prophesy so?

Sure I recall lots of prophecies that predicted Jerusalem's downfall by Nebuchadnezzar. Prophesies were often issured from the point of view of warning to rulers or as just a fabourable future many people hope.

Best regards,
Mer

Irma:
hello eiko
Me:
Hi, how are you?
Irma:
i'm fine thank you
how's your church service last night?
Me:
The contents are how important to have a good friend. I agreed with that. I met a lot of good people, especially a guy from London who started living in Fukuoka -my home town few days ago. We will see in other occasions.
Irma:
oh ok
did you take your lunch?
Me:
It was two hours service, all were held in English. Lunch? No, not yet..
Irma:
its lunch time already
Me:
Will you make sandwiches on line?
Irma:
hahahaha how is that?
lunch just sandwich?
Me:
Difficult.. what are you going to have at lunch?
Irma:
i will cook first
because we just have our lunch at 10am
rice and fish
talk to you later eiko i will cook lunch first
Me:
Ok, I'll be on line, see you again!

Having a chat with a good friend

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Irma:
hello eiko
Me:
Did you finish working today?
Irma:
i'm not working anymore
i just resigned last feb 15
Me:
Not working now?
Irma:
no i'm at home
Me:
I see. You must be looking for a new job.
Irma:
yes i am looking for abroad
Me:
abroad? For example in which country?
Irma:
like canada or china
Me:
What type of job, nursing?
Irma:
no any job related to my job experience
Me:
Accounting, etc..
Irma:
yes
Me:
Was there any job offering in these countries?
Irma:
yes there is
Me:
I see. Do you hope to work in Hongkong or Shanghai?
Irma:
If there is an apportunity there why not
?
Me:
By bthe way.. I'm going to evening service today on Thusday from 8pm to 10.
Irma:
on what service?
Me:
Church
Irma:
what church are attending?
Me:
Christian church service, what denomination is not sure or I don't care.
Irma:
oh oh
ok
Me:
I read whole Bible, many denominations are based on its interpretation. Interpretation is different in each individual. I enjoy getting together in a place.
I just moved to a bigger city, so I can attend. I hope you find a job in Tokyo, how about the cases in Japan?
Irma:
i think i could go there only if i will marry a japanese my sister told me
Me:
I see.
Is your sister in Tokyo?
Irma:
thats why its difficult..i have to find my prince charming first hahahaha..joke
yes my sister is in tokyo
Me:
I hope I marry pretty Philipina as you. Serious..
Irma:
hahaha i thought you don't want to marry?
Me:
Did I say so? It depends...
Irma:
oh ok
i will ask my sister's address and maybe you can visit them there..she is married to a japanese
i think the name of his husband is hide
Me:
Hide is first name, what's their surname?
Irma:
i will check first her email
miyokawa
they are in Hanasaki
Me:
I want to marry a woman who has similar mental quality as me. I like to have a chat with you more so that we can see one another. I think if you don't smoke, drink and like Bible study, that'll be fabulous!!
Irma:
yes
beacause my parents raised un going to church
us*
Me:
Is Hanasaki in Tokyo? I've never heard the name.
Irma:
yes Narashito City Chiba ken
Me:
I see. Is he a cook? How did they know each other?
Irma:
yes he is a cook
my sister husband is a cook
sister's
*
Me:
Was your sister working in Tokyo?
Irma:
yes
Me:
I see. I'm going to prepare for the evening service, I'll check email later tonight, talk about what church service had later tonight. Thanks for sparing your precious time for me!
Irma:
ok thanks too..take care!

Thanks Irma..

I intend to enjoy chatting with you whenever possible at night. Talk to you later..

Eiko

Hi, Irma..

How are you?

Let's have a chat every now and then.

My best,
Eiko

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Me:
How are you, Juth?
Juth :
hi
Me:
Is today off?
Juth :
im fine thank u
yah
Me:
How's Omuta? Is it fine now?
Juth :
always same
im not working the night
Me:
Are you working daytime now?I understand Omuta has lots of factories, is that correct?
Juth :
yes
right
Me:
So you are working in a boutique or something?
Juth :
kaishiya
a company
dress maker
Me:
Fantastic!
It's better to work in daytime.
Juth :
yess
Me:
What do you plan to do in holidays, I mean 'Golden Week'?
Juth :
n u hows ur life?
i dont have a rest time day
Me:
I see. I have no girl to go with right now, so I feel very lonely.
Juth :
ohhh
lonely
Me:
Preferably I'd like to see you either in Omuta or Hakata.
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mercedo wrote today at 6:17 PM
Pretty woman!

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Me:
Hi, Br Don I got back successfully in Fukuoka on 16th of April.
I start using internet as of today. See you very soon!.

To Juth

Juth; How are you?
Me; Thank you Juth.
I'm fine and nothing to do right now.
It's hot today. I'm going on a beach for evening airing.

I like a woman who wears a T shirt which reads 'New York'.

Giving off a noble ambience.

Hey, Melissa...

I'm fine and I just started a new life in Fukuoka.

Happy Easter!! Hope to see you again.

Will you send me your recent pictures so that I can confirm your beauty.

Best wishes,
Mer

Interview

Eiko Onoda's interview
About me
This 'journal of mercedo' is totally dedicated to one woman whom I met with in Trecca, Kyoto, Japan on the 23rd of December, 1986 for the first time and probably the last time in our life. We will never see one another again, but my journal entry will continue till I receive a reply from her that'll never be likely to occur. She came into pieces and shining in the sky, and not in the least existing in my mind. I can see her smiling at me. Don't worry, she had just got married to another guy. Born in Kokura, south-west Japan, 1961, I raised up as a most prosperous guy who'd always been located in second to none in all school I attended, now I started my trek to see her again till the end of time, waiting your reply. I published my first novel 'The Eve' in 1978, now those who noticed who I am, please keep secret. For the moment I would like to enjoy being anonymous. My trek continues...
I'm looking for
Love
Friends to go out with
I'm living
Alone
I'm living
in an appartement
Colour of your eyes
Brown
Colour of your hair
Black
Weight (pounds)
170 cm 62 kg
Clothing style
Bohemian
Jeans
Favourite clothings brand
Levis
What are you wearing now?
training wear
Favourite tv channel
BBC1
BBC2
Mobile brand
Motorola
Favourite car brand
MERCEDES-BENZ
How many times did you try to get your driving-licence?
3 times
Favourite journal
Herald Tribune
Best travelling experience
Travelled all over the world
Worst travelling experience
All travels were fine.
Favourite cities abroad
Paris
Cologne
Brussels
London
Berlin
Cork
München
Milan
Venice
Dublin
Smoker?
I've stopped smoking!
Tobacco brand (if smoker)
Rothmans
Do you drink a lot of alcohol?
No
Favourite non alcoholic drink
Schweppes
Favourite radio channel
BBC
Favourite books or writers
Moby Dick
What do you think is romantic?
Walking on the street full of yellow leaves
The best thing ever happened to you
Awarded by Minister of Science and technology Agency at age 13
What do you hate?
Those who hate people
At what time do you go to bed?
Depends
Do you have friends that are living abroad?
Yes
Homepage
www.blogger.com/profile/11854854

Irma; hi, mer



Me; Did you go to church today?

Picture of 'Four Seas Watchtower'

Hi, Johndiii,

This is mercedo. I send you two pictures of cherry blossoms today I took near my lodgings.
Third one is the picture of famous Chinese restaurant ' Four Seas Watchtower' oldest Chinese restaurant in Nagasaki, which we took last October.
Fourth one is my snapshot my wife took in front of one of restaurants in China town in Nagasaki. We made a short trip to Nagasaki around that time.

I hope you enjoy. Sorry for blur quality of the pictures of cherry blossoms. I took them in my cell phone that is only available right now.

I'm going to move back to Fukuoka soon next month. In case you can't receive proper images please let me know.

Sincerely,

mercedo -- Ancient Greek Philosophers - 18th century Enlightenment Thinkers - Gmail Users

Let's talk about literature toghther.

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Hi, are you awake?

Irma (28/3/09 8:25 AM):
We just spend 1 hr for Church service..
Irma (28/3/09 8:25 AM):
I have on friendster and myspace too
Irma (28/3/09 8:25 AM):
Its ok no problem..

Our time is one hour ahead. I went to bed at 10 PM, sorry...

Going out from the evening

I stayed in Manila for three months before so I know they like to go out after the sunset. We usually don't go out from the evening, especially in winter -weekends are special though..

I see. Twice a week, how many hours do you usually spare for them? I'm curious because we -Japanese don't have such customs.
Ok, please let me know your new site so that I can check up.

I couldn't find your profile there. Did you delete it?
How often do you attend the church service? In a week, for example?

Talk on line with Irma

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Irma (27/3/09 9:35 AM):
Ok i'll check this profile..Have a nice day!
Me:
Thanks. I feel secured as I got someone who understands me.
Irma:
Yes, i'm a friend
maybe i'll be online at 9pm here because we will go to church
we have an evangelical mission tonight
Me:
Oh, I see. I will see your profile in MySpace while you a re in a church.

By the way my real identity is Eiko Onoda. Here's my profile.www.blogger.com/profile/11854854 Please check. As I said I am alone. My girlfriend is gone forever.

You find lots of curious photos there. Ok, thank you for a nice chatting. Keep on being a nice friend!! See you soon!!

Chat with Irma

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Irma (26/3/09 8:03 PM):
How about you where do u keep your blogs..Which website?
Irma is Available
Me:
Hi, you are on line..
Irma:
yes
Me:
I've been keeping many blogs. All you have to do is just enterthe term 'mercedo' in Google search.
Irma:
oh ok i'll check
Me:
This is a good way to know someone. As a matter of fact I know what my neighbour did in a day without talking to them.
Irma:
Oh ok
interesting
Oh you have a wife here..
hahaha u told me never been married
Me:
Which site are you refering to?
Irma:
multiply.com
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Irma:
My favorite tv series is now showing i have to go now my friend..
bye for now
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Me:
I see. It's one of the best blogs I ever kept. ..Nice choice. I think I revealed myself more candid way in blogs. If you want to visit deviantART. com. you need to log in. This site is members only. You find lots of ..keep on being a nice friend!!

Irma (26/3/09 9:10 AM):
no i don't keep online diaries
Irma (26/3/09 9:10 AM):
How about you?
Me:
If you kept a diary on-loine, I would be able to know you more. I don't know whether it can be called a diary though, I keep blogs.

Yeah, do you keep an online diary?

mercedo wrote today at 6:19 PM
Enigma..

Irma's reply

Irma (25/3/09 12:20 AM):
Oh sorry i thought you are busy already thats why i signed out just now i read your last message..What do you mean by blogs? my blogs or your blogs?what i know to blogs is online diaries

Juth. Good night. I am already very sleepy.

Smily

This is an Ark of latter-day Noah.

On line or real life?

Our realm of encounter is very limited. Almost no possibility of developing intimate relations from on line friends. We can't tell whether we like him or her just from the impression in on line. We encounter girl or boy friend from our real life. But I feel always you are beside me. Our spiritual similarity makes me so. Do you keep blogs?

This vicious circle

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Irma:
hello mercedo
good evening
Me:
Yeah..
Irma:
just saw you online
Me:
Yes, I am.
Irma:
just bored nothing to do
Me:
Oh, really? How's your daughtor?
Irma:
she's gOod.,she's editing her paged on tagged
Me:
I quit my job today. I'm going to move soon.
Irma:
ohh where will you go?
Me:
I spent a year in Kokura, and I'm moving back to Fukuoka.
Usually new fiscal year starts in April.
Irma:
oh i see
anyway goodluck to you =)
Me:
I separated from a girlfriend. She's been in my steady for three years.
Irma:
ohh what happened?
Me:
She asked me to marry. I couldn't.
Irma:
why?
Me:
Marriage is a serious matter, which relates to economy.
Irma:
you mean to say you don't wanna get married?
that's your choice.
Me:
No, I don't. I don't think I have to marry someone. I like to go with a woman without marrying.
Irma:
ohh i see.,yeah that's your choice
Me:
But usually a woman quit going with me after they realised I have no intention to marry them. Then I need to find another one. My life for this two decade has been a repetition of vicious circle. I fed up already.
Irma:
yes because most woman nowadys would like to be married
meaning you are doing that for 20 yrs already?
1 decade =10 yrs isn't it?
you are doing it for 2 decades meaning you are doing it for 20 yrs already
Me:
Yeah, I'm 47 now. Since at age around 25.
Irma:
oh i see
if you want not to get married i think you have to find a white or an american lady ..because most of them are liberated
Me:
I usually went out with a woman for two or three years. Then separated. I repeated it for five or six times. Good suggestion. But all of my ex girlfriends hoped to marry me.
Irma:
you have to tell them first before you get into the relationship
so that from the very beginning of your relationship she knows that you will not marry her
maybe you didn't find yet the right woman for you

Are you a Philipina working in Taipei?

Hi, let's have a chat!

Thank you so much for your message. I gladly accept and want to know you more. Write to me anything, I'm glad.

Snoopymaui

Very pretty..I like you.

Happy birthday!!